Standards
I can't stop it.
I have to admit, If I didn't have a phone call at 2 PM, I'd be out the door on my way to the crew club to bottom out to the first confident masculine guy to show an interest in my ass.
I hate feeling inconsistent. I like to think that I have standards and I do. I don't like long hair, not even longish hair. I like facial hair. Confidence carries a LOT of wieght. And when a guy's going to fuck me, he has to be masculine. And even when you're just meeting someone, there are ways to gauge trustworthyness -- not foolproof ways, but some behavior just smacks of dishonesty or insincerity, and that's a big turn off also.
So yeah, some standards. Intelligence, I also greatly appreciate. But by and large, if the guy fits the descriptors in the previous paragraph, he's got me. Small dick? 70+ years old? Belly that's large enough to get in the way? Facial wasting? Protease paunch? A philosophy that I vehemently disagree with? None of that generally matters so much... and the last three are actually turn ons for me. Looks in general can matter some, especially if I've got multiple options, but they're very unlikely to be a disqualifier
I went to the bathroom to stick a finger up my butt... yep, still clean. My partner fucked me good last night. Damn, I'm a lucky boy. Too bad I'm stuck for the next few hours.
I'm quite fuckable. I can be reasonably confident I'd get fucked good and raw if I went. Well 90% confident anyway. No maybe 80%, plus an additional 10% chance of finding a "safer" top which could present some uncomfortableness depending on factors like his size and how much I can relax with him. And the remaining 10% of the time, I'd still have fun.
But I can't go right now.
My partner is going away this weekend. He will be having a lot of fun in Harrisburg.
And now my 2 o'clock call is only 30 minutes away. I'd better go grab lunch.